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15th Oct 2024

Lead with Heart - Nationwide Financial SVP and CTO, Michael Carrel

Lead with Heart

Michael Carrel, SVP and CTO at Nationwide Financial, embodies a leadership approach deeply rooted in empathy, compassion, and resilience.

With nearly 30 years of experience driving technology and innovation, Michael opens up about a personal family crisis that tested his resilience and shaped his philosophy on leading with empathy—not just in the office, but in every aspect of life.

You'll also uncover the powerful strategies he uses to ignite passion in his teams.

Get ready for invaluable insights to create a workplace where your team thrives and is aligned with purpose.

This is one episode you won’t want to miss!

Takeaways:

Effective leadership is about showing empathy, compassion, and resilience in challenging situations.

Vulnerability in leadership can build trust and foster deeper connections with teams.

Success in leadership often requires learning from personal experiences and applying those lessons.

Passion for one's work increases motivation, creativity, and engagement, leading to better performance.

A personal mission statement can provide clarity and direction in both personal and professional life.

Resilience and perseverance are key traits for overcoming challenges and achieving long-term success.

Chapters:

00:00 - Introduction to Michael Carroll

01:44 - Balancing Leadership and Personal Life

03:28 - The Importance of Vulnerability in Leadership

05:54 - Defining Success and Significance

09:40 - Fostering Passion in the Workplace

15:28 - Personal Tragedy and Resilience

21:42 - Unexpected Career Opportunities

26:37 - Conclusion

Connect with Michael - https://www.linkedin.com/in/michael-carrel-701839/

This episode is brought to you by Covenant Technologies: https://cov-technologies.com/

and Cybertrust Network: https://cybertrustnetwork.com/

Transcript
Michael Carroll:

I want to be the leader that others want to follow, not someone that they have to follow.

Michael Carroll:

So I will admit mistakes.

Michael Carroll:

I will ask questions about things that will help us build a better path forward and effective leadership.

Michael Carroll:

It's not just about achieving our goals, but it's also about showing empathy, compassion, and also resilience in challenging situations.

Speaker B:

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Speaker B:

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Speaker B:

Here's your host, CEO, Casey Marquette.

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Let's go.

Casey Marquette:

Hey there.

Casey Marquette:

Lead it nation.

Casey Marquette:

Today I have for you Michael Carroll.

Casey Marquette:

With close to 30 years of experience in the technology field, Michael is the senior vice president and chief technology officer of Nationwide Financial, where he is responsible for all technology solutions supporting the financial services businesses at nationwide with over 40 billion in annual revenue.

Casey Marquette:

Michael is also the author of a great piece in Boss magazine, mastering the Art of Change in the digital domain.

Casey Marquette:

There's a lot in store for you in this episode, and you definitely don't want to miss it.

Casey Marquette:

But before we dive in, congratulations, Michael, on such an illustrious and remarkable career.

Michael Carroll:

Thank you, Casey.

Michael Carroll:

It's a privilege to be here today.

Casey Marquette:

Great.

Casey Marquette:

Thank you.

Casey Marquette:

Let's kick this off with a leadership story.

Casey Marquette:

Michael, has anyone ever expressed gratitude for your leadership in a way that surprised or moved you?

Michael Carroll:

That is a great question, and one of the most memorable moments of gratitude that I've experienced came from a completely unexpected source, which is actually my wife.

Michael Carroll:

I was part of a technology leadership class, and many people, my boss, people that I work with, were asked to describe a time when they saw you at your best as a leader.

Michael Carroll:

And my wife recalled a night when one of our children was ill, and I stayed up all night allowing her to get some rest.

Michael Carroll:

And the simple act meant a ton to her because it demonstrated genuine love and concern for others.

Michael Carroll:

Just almost an unwavering commitment to the things that matter most to me, and just the ability to kind of remain calm and focus under pressure.

Michael Carroll:

And to me, I remember thinking in this leadership development program, it was just a great reminder that effective leadership, it's not just about achieving our goals, but it's also about showing empathy, compassion, and also resilience and challenging situations.

Michael Carroll:

And so I remember reading that, and I'll tell you, Casey, this was like seven years later after this had happened.

Michael Carroll:

She had never shared that with me our entire life.

Michael Carroll:

But to hear that that made such a great impact on her, of personal leadership, that really.

Michael Carroll:

Amen.

Michael Carroll:

A ton to me.

Casey Marquette:

I love that you actually highlighted a personal situation.

Casey Marquette:

That's the first time I've heard that, but I think that's awesome, especially your level.

Casey Marquette:

You know, you become a workaholic.

Casey Marquette:

A lot of us, you know, you tend to focus on work, not family.

Casey Marquette:

So what an amazing story that.

Casey Marquette:

That's awesome.

Casey Marquette:

Michael, next question.

Casey Marquette:

What's the worst leadership advice you've heard?

Michael Carroll:

This was easy.

Michael Carroll:

Very early in my career, I remember someone telling me never to show vulnerability.

Michael Carroll:

It'll make you look weak.

Michael Carroll:

It'll make you never make sure that you know the answers to everything.

Michael Carroll:

Don't ever kind of show any sort of weakness.

Michael Carroll:

And, you know, and I had at the time, I remember experiencing situations where leaders were afraid to express their emotions or admit their weaknesses, and that really creates a toxic work environment.

Michael Carroll:

So I was quick to.

Michael Carroll:

To dismiss this despite their passion around the feedback, you know, and I think through my career, you know, it's really clear I'm a huge Lencioni fan.

Michael Carroll:

Right.

Michael Carroll:

Vulnerability can build trust.

Michael Carroll:

It can foster empathy.

Michael Carroll:

It can help leaders really truly connect with their teams at a deeper level.

Michael Carroll:

And I lead this.

Michael Carroll:

I live that every day inside and outside of work.

Michael Carroll:

And I'm going to tell you it makes a difference.

Michael Carroll:

So, you know, in fact, I tell people that I want to be the leader that others want to follow, not someone that they have to follow.

Michael Carroll:

So I will admit mistakes.

Michael Carroll:

I will ask questions about things that will help us build a better path forward.

Michael Carroll:

So that was probably the worst advice I've ever received.

Casey Marquette:

Wow, that's a great answer.

Casey Marquette:

You know, looking back on my career, I think I probably struggled with that early on.

Casey Marquette:

You know, I didn't want to appear weak, but I don't know if it's, you know, I always loved reading leadership books, and I.

Casey Marquette:

I was always more passionate about leadership than technology.

Casey Marquette:

And along the way, I mean, being vulnerable, it's so important to your point, to connect and trust.

Casey Marquette:

But I think early on, you know, you're taught in sports, you know, don't be weak.

Casey Marquette:

And so I think that's something personally I struggle with early in my career.

Michael Carroll:

I'm a huge student of leadership, and you mentioned, you know, kind of like, the purpose of connection.

Michael Carroll:

And, you know, like John, a huge John Maxwell fan.

Michael Carroll:

John Max wrote a book, everyone communicates if you connect.

Michael Carroll:

Right.

Michael Carroll:

And I think being vulnerable really helps you connect with people.

Michael Carroll:

They can sense the heartbeat like other leader.

Michael Carroll:

And there's a lot of things.

Michael Carroll:

It's a great book.

Michael Carroll:

Kind of goes into a lot of great practices as a leader.

Michael Carroll:

How do you truly connect and not just communicate?

Michael Carroll:

So I'm right there with you.

Casey Marquette:

Love it.

Casey Marquette:

Next question.

Casey Marquette:

What advice would you give your younger self today or something?

Casey Marquette:

You tell them to try.

Michael Carroll:

You know, I love this question, and I have to recommend a book, and it's called halftime.

Michael Carroll:

Moving from success to significance by Bob Buford.

Michael Carroll:

I remember I was in my mid twenties when I read this book.

Michael Carroll:

And it was actually written from a perspective of someone who was kind of like halfway through their life.

Michael Carroll:

And what advice would they give to their younger self based upon what they learned?

Michael Carroll:

And the most impactful thing that I learned through that book, and I'm so glad that I read it, actually, when I was in my mid twenties, is how do you make sure that you build a life of significance, that it's not just based on short term success?

Michael Carroll:

Early in my career, I focused on acquiring my degrees.

Michael Carroll:

Where would my next opportunity come from?

Michael Carroll:

Achieving everything that I could, mainly in the workplace.

Michael Carroll:

But I'll tell you what, through that book and even learning from some more experienced leaders, I learned the discipline of defining significance for my life, what it means to me, setting goals in all areas of my life, whether that's work, that's home, that's faith, that's community, and then also the discipline of reflection to continually assess, am I headed in the right path?

Michael Carroll:

So I would tell my younger self probably, to read that book earlier, about ten years before I did, and circle yourself with strong leaders who live a life of significance that can actually mentor you and coach you early in your career.

Michael Carroll:

There's way too many people that I've had the opportunity to be friends with that realize the importance of significance in your life too late, because they've chased success to the point where work, for instance, becomes everything versus just a part of yourself.

Michael Carroll:

And so the greatest gift, I would say, is a set of leaders I had when I was in my mid twenties.

Michael Carroll:

It was part of a leadership development program that I was in that just, like, really, like, invested in me to help me get that perspective.

Michael Carroll:

So you don't kind of wake up that halfway through your life and realize that, you know, you're not the kind of husband or dad you wanted to be or not making the level of impact you want in your community.

Michael Carroll:

And so very thankful for that.

Michael Carroll:

If I could have read it when I was, in fact, like I've given, we have a high schooler or two in college, which everybody knows when they graduate from high school, they get a copy of that book and encourage them to read it, because I think it's really the art of leading yourself.

Michael Carroll:

Well, I tell people all the time, until you can learn to lead yourself, well, you shouldn't be leading others.

Michael Carroll:

And it starts with kind of books like halftime that Bob and Buford wrote to kind of really help put perspective in place to lead yourself well.

Casey Marquette:

And just so you know, we love books on this show.

Casey Marquette:

So.

Casey Marquette:

So one of my favorite books I read long time ago was called 100 Success Principles, and it was, Jack Canfield was the author.

Casey Marquette:

But one of those principles was, whatever you want to be good at, good at in life, read about it.

Casey Marquette:

Somebody's already done it and written about it.

Casey Marquette:

So.

Casey Marquette:

So it sounds like that's what I've done.

Casey Marquette:

I don't think I was born a leader.

Casey Marquette:

I don't think I was, you know, anything other than I just read and just reinforced things.

Casey Marquette:

Yeah.

Casey Marquette:

And then the other thing I really love is it made me think of, you know, some people work so much, they.

Casey Marquette:

They don't take care of their family.

Casey Marquette:

And so we're.

Casey Marquette:

I'm taking the team to Tony Robbins in November in New Jersey.

Casey Marquette:

But one of the things he says, you know, he deals with these billionaires, and they're miserable.

Michael Carroll:

Yes.

Casey Marquette:

So he talks about wealth, and wealth isn't just money.

Casey Marquette:

Right.

Casey Marquette:

Spiritual.

Casey Marquette:

And most, you know, there's so many different aspects of being wealthy, and so being successful but also being happy is so important.

Michael Carroll:

I agree more.

Casey Marquette:

Great.

Casey Marquette:

Next question.

Casey Marquette:

What's the one trait you wish you could instill in every employee, and why do you think it's important?

Michael Carroll:

Why like one?

Michael Carroll:

Just choosing one is so hard for me, though.

Michael Carroll:

If I had to choose one, I would really say passion.

Michael Carroll:

I would love to have every associate be passionate about what they do.

Michael Carroll:

We spend so much of our time and energy at work, and I see the best performance and satisfaction coming from those who are passionate about what they do.

Michael Carroll:

To me, it's a crucial trait to instill in every associate because I think it increases motivation.

Michael Carroll:

When you're passionate about what you do, to your point about learning, Casey, you surround yourself.

Michael Carroll:

You're motivated to succeed in that, learn as much as you can to be excellent at what you do.

Michael Carroll:

I find those that have passion wealthy, they're more creative.

Michael Carroll:

New ideas emerge.

Michael Carroll:

They surround themselves by people who are good stewards of the profession that they're in.

Michael Carroll:

They have higher engagement.

Michael Carroll:

They inspire others.

Michael Carroll:

All of us want to be around people who get up every day and are excited about what they do.

Michael Carroll:

And so they just, they're more engaged in their work, and we see them being better coaches, even for other people, and they just create that culture.

Casey Marquette:

Right.

Michael Carroll:

That's energetic and that's positive.

Michael Carroll:

And so, you know, life is just too short, and to do it with things that you're not passionate about is just sad.

Michael Carroll:

Saddens me, actually.

Michael Carroll:

So what I try to do as a leader, to create a work environment is really to have a work environment that supports their interests and their goals.

Michael Carroll:

You know, I try to provide opportunities for professional development.

Michael Carroll:

Like Lerner, you mentioned, you know, Casey, just kind of reading a ton, like, for strength finders, I'm sure you probably have done strength finders, you know, before as well.

Michael Carroll:

Like, you know, learner is my number one, so I'm constantly looking for new opportunities.

Michael Carroll:

I read a ton on leadership.

Michael Carroll:

I'm so happy with this that you kind of invited me for the session because, like leadership, I'm a huge student of it.

Michael Carroll:

Always believe, trying to get better.

Michael Carroll:

I read a ton of surround yourself with really good leaders, and so providing professional opportunities for professional development, encouraging creativity, and recognizing rewards and contributions.

Michael Carroll:

People also, when they feel like their passions are making a difference for the business that you're in, for, how they add value to those around.

Michael Carroll:

I find that focusing on the motivation, too, around that can help them also kind of feed their.

Michael Carroll:

Feed their passions.

Michael Carroll:

So if it were me, I just want everyone, one trait, have passion for what you do.

Casey Marquette:

And I'm not just saying this, I could not agree more.

Casey Marquette:

So owning a staffing company, right.

Casey Marquette:

That's one of my challenges with the recruiting staff, is how do you determine in an interview somebody's passionate?

Casey Marquette:

But what we struggle with is so many leaders, when we ask them what's most important, it's not passion.

Casey Marquette:

It's 20 years of this.

Casey Marquette:

And I've seen so many amazing employees because they have the passion, they just figure it out.

Casey Marquette:

And so I wish more people would hire on passion as opposed to, you got to have 20 years of this and 20 years of that.

Michael Carroll:

I agree, Casey.

Michael Carroll:

One thing I do is that I've coached on a lot of leadership development programs like here at nationwide.

Michael Carroll:

And one of the things I do is tell people, like, the power of having a life mission statement, right.

Michael Carroll:

And, you know, I've got a life mission statement, and I think it's got to be your why, you know, and you gotta be really clear on your why.

Michael Carroll:

And that means all elements of your life and spending time thinking about it, stating it, writing it down is so foundational to good leadership.

Michael Carroll:

I tell people all the time, just as an organization, you have to have vision, mission, strategy, goals, objectives.

Michael Carroll:

Right.

Michael Carroll:

Just everything reporter would tell you to do, you have to do that same thing for yourself.

Michael Carroll:

What's your vision statement?

Michael Carroll:

What's your mission statement?

Michael Carroll:

Right.

Michael Carroll:

What goals do you have inside and outside of work?

Michael Carroll:

What's your timeframe to get there?

Michael Carroll:

That's incredibly powerful.

Casey Marquette:

Yes.

Casey Marquette:

And I love, you mentioned the gratitude piece.

Casey Marquette:

I remember, it's been a long time ago, but I remember reading the article, whatever book I was reading, where they had a list of what leaders think motivates employees.

Casey Marquette:

And on one side was like, you know, money was number one.

Casey Marquette:

But then you flipped over to what the, you know, what, what truly motivates people.

Casey Marquette:

And one of the top ones was just thanking them.

Michael Carroll:

Yeah.

Casey Marquette:

I always tell people that's free.

Casey Marquette:

Don't just say thank you, though.

Casey Marquette:

Really think about it.

Casey Marquette:

Take time.

Casey Marquette:

So I literally have an hour of gratitude on my calendar every week.

Casey Marquette:

And honestly, that may be a family member, it may be a vendor, it may be an employee.

Casey Marquette:

Just to really think about who should I really take time.

Casey Marquette:

And the other thing we do, Michael, is, and we track this as our leadership metrics.

Casey Marquette:

We literally have a metric of four handwritten notes sent in the mail every month.

Michael Carroll:

That's great.

Casey Marquette:

And again, that could be an employee, that could be a client, it could be a candidate, whoever it may be.

Casey Marquette:

And so we literally track that and make sure it happens.

Michael Carroll:

And in this day and age, like with digital, like handwritten notes makes a big.

Michael Carroll:

Because it's unexpected.

Michael Carroll:

Right?

Michael Carroll:

Yeah.

Michael Carroll:

Everyone's expecting the email or the text message.

Michael Carroll:

So it's funny how now that, what was the expected.

Michael Carroll:

Right.

Michael Carroll:

Kind of like the medium now is they, it means a ton because it's extra effort.

Michael Carroll:

Right.

Michael Carroll:

It takes time, but it means that you care.

Michael Carroll:

So that's great.

Michael Carroll:

Yeah.

Casey Marquette:

And it's almost, I mean, it's crazy to say, but it's almost innovative.

Casey Marquette:

Just like, I travel the country and just meet with people in person and that's, that's kind of rare anymore as well.

Casey Marquette:

So there's, anyway, great answer.

Casey Marquette:

Let me find, let's see here.

Casey Marquette:

Okay.

Casey Marquette:

Over the years, what was your biggest source of inspiration and why?

Casey Marquette:

What's a challenging time?

Casey Marquette:

It got you through.

Michael Carroll:

Yeah.

Michael Carroll:

So this will be a little bit personal as well.

Michael Carroll:

I'll tell you, it may sound awkward, but my biggest source of inspiration has also probably been my biggest tragedy.

Michael Carroll:

You know, many people will ask you I've heard this, like, Michael, what makes you the leader you are today?

Michael Carroll:

I really.

Michael Carroll:

I tell them all the time.

Michael Carroll:

It's a product of our experiences, but most importantly, how we leverage them to become a better version of ourselves.

Michael Carroll:

So my wife and I have experienced a loss of two children.

Michael Carroll:

We had a stillbirth, and then we also lost one of our premature twins about 36 hours after she was born.

Michael Carroll:

And I'll tell you, it was a tragic time for the both of us.

Michael Carroll:

And while I wish we had an experience that I can say that we are both better and stronger because of it.

Michael Carroll:

In fact, I remember reading a book, you know, Leader's legacy, and it stated that, like, the mastery of the art of leadership comes from the mastery of the self.

Michael Carroll:

So and so developing leadership is a process of developing the self.

Michael Carroll:

And for me, there are a couple of things that I would say that, you know, I learned through that process.

Michael Carroll:

One of this, perseverance and resiliency.

Michael Carroll:

You know, I think resilience is critical to leaders and to learning.

Michael Carroll:

And if you really want something bad enough, be willing to persevere and see something through.

Michael Carroll:

I remember after a stillbirth and then, you know, losing a twin.

Michael Carroll:

And I'll tell you, the other twin, she's our oldest daughter.

Michael Carroll:

She is 22, and she is healthy and happy and wonderful.

Michael Carroll:

And then we've had two outstanding brothers since then.

Michael Carroll:

And I remember people telling my wife and I, you should stop.

Michael Carroll:

Right?

Michael Carroll:

You've had to two disappointments.

Michael Carroll:

Now you have your daughter.

Michael Carroll:

You should just kind of be happy.

Michael Carroll:

And I remember my wife felt like, no, we, you know, we love kids, and we're like, no.

Michael Carroll:

Like, yes, it's been difficult for us, but, you know, went through.

Michael Carroll:

Now we have a wonderful three children.

Michael Carroll:

The second thing is that, you know, patience, but realizing the good that comes from the difficult times.

Michael Carroll:

You know, I am a firm believer that everything happens for a reason.

Michael Carroll:

And it's so important for us when we have times in our lives where we have disappointment, where we have a setback, right.

Michael Carroll:

That we use those experiences to become better and learn from those.

Michael Carroll:

And so I was able, I know, to use those experiences to help and inspire others.

Michael Carroll:

And, you know, it forced me to grow into areas where I needed to grow.

Michael Carroll:

And so it's hard to be thankful.

Michael Carroll:

There's a saying about, like, being thankful for the reign in life because it leads to the greatest growth.

Michael Carroll:

And those are two things I learned from that.

Michael Carroll:

And, you know, how I apply that to work is that I've been part of many difficult, challenging transformation effort, technology transformations here at nationwide.

Michael Carroll:

You know, I have been in technology for 30 years.

Michael Carroll:

This is my third CTO role here at nationwide.

Michael Carroll:

I had been part of transforming technology, you know, for a large portion of my career.

Michael Carroll:

And it comes with a lot, a lot of risk and a lot of reward.

Michael Carroll:

And there was one initiative in particular that had challenges like growth and estimates, partnership issues with an external vendor, low associate morale.

Casey Marquette:

Right.

Michael Carroll:

Everyone, especially when, you know, you're not achieving intended outcomes.

Michael Carroll:

And what I try to do is put all the challenges in perspective, right.

Michael Carroll:

And first of all, show up as a leader in control with perspective and guidance to really help chart a path through.

Michael Carroll:

And people need to see a path through challenges, and they need to see a reason to persevere, focusing on the value, the outcomes.

Michael Carroll:

And I remember telling people, nothing with great value in my life or my career has ever been easy.

Michael Carroll:

If I look back on the most impactful moments that make me who I am today, they were the ones that were difficult.

Michael Carroll:

They were hard.

Michael Carroll:

They were hairy and scary and difficult.

Michael Carroll:

They were never the easy ones.

Michael Carroll:

I think for me, nothing can rival the challenges that I mentioned that my wife and I had to deal with outside of work.

Michael Carroll:

I tell people, like, well, I wish it never happened.

Michael Carroll:

I'll tell you what, there is little that can happen, even at work, that can rival kind of like, what you've been able to learn from and grow from and have a level of resiliency that you need to kind of, like, deal with, with difficult times.

Michael Carroll:

So.

Michael Carroll:

And I remember reminding people on these efforts, right.

Michael Carroll:

Many times, especially for associates mid, you know, kind of like mid level in the organization.

Michael Carroll:

They may only be part of one of these transformation projects once in their career.

Michael Carroll:

Right.

Michael Carroll:

These are like core modern platforms that they're not, you know, you're not changing them, like every five years.

Michael Carroll:

Right.

Michael Carroll:

They'll exist for, you know,:

Michael Carroll:

Right.

Michael Carroll:

Like business, you know, these are platforms you're building your business on.

Michael Carroll:

And so I like to try to get people excited, right, about the opportunity that getting into something scary and hairy that you don't know, you know, it's going to be difficult can actually help much how much more fulfilling, you know, that can actually make you so.

Michael Carroll:

So for me, like, through all.

Michael Carroll:

But I tell people, like, again, learn to lead yourself really well.

Michael Carroll:

And then it's amazing what you can accomplish when you're, when you're leading an organization, if you can apply those lessons.

Casey Marquette:

Yeah.

Casey Marquette:

Wow.

Casey Marquette:

Well, first off, sorry, that's a, I can't even imagine.

Casey Marquette:

But, but also, yeah, putting things into perspective.

Michael Carroll:

You.

Casey Marquette:

Years ago, I actually ran the global command center for Johnson.

Casey Marquette:

And Johnson.

Casey Marquette:

We had business critical, impacting incidents.

Casey Marquette:

We had 240 operating companies.

Casey Marquette:

So it was a chaotic job.

Casey Marquette:

You know, everybody, we were losing lots of money every minute we were down.

Casey Marquette:

So I ran those command centers all over the world.

Michael Carroll:

Wow.

Casey Marquette:

And just.

Casey Marquette:

But to your point, you know, as a leader, staying calm, and basically, you know, somebody calls from the team, they're all worked up, nobody's dying.

Casey Marquette:

You know, let's rely, let's really think through this.

Casey Marquette:

So I don't know what to say to that other than sorry.

Casey Marquette:

That's a, that must have been very tough.

Casey Marquette:

Very tough to go through.

Casey Marquette:

Last question.

Casey Marquette:

When's Wednesday?

Casey Marquette:

When's a time you had an unexpected twist or failure in your career?

Casey Marquette:

How did it lead to growth or success down the road?

Michael Carroll:

I have a great story around this one.

Michael Carroll:

So at the time, I was like, first level executive at Nationwide, working in a part of our property and casualty organization.

Michael Carroll:

And I was two levels kind of removed from our enterprise CIO.

Michael Carroll:

But our enterprise CIO at the time, he would get all the officers in technology together, like, four times a year.

Michael Carroll:

And oftentimes he would give you the opportunity to respond after these meetings to strategic issues in technology, and he would let every officer, didn't matter if you were officer, ABP VP, senior vice president, or he was the executive vice president, he would give all officers an opportunity to respond to him.

Michael Carroll:

And a couple of pages around how you would respond to maybe a strategic issue he was responding to.

Michael Carroll:

So if you can imagine, he's getting probably, like 100 of these with our officer group.

Michael Carroll:

And so for several years, I would submit.

Michael Carroll:

I would submit kind of like my perspective.

Michael Carroll:

I love the assignment, actually.

Michael Carroll:

Right?

Michael Carroll:

It's kind of being opportunity to think even bigger and broader.

Michael Carroll:

And so I remember one day, I get this invite for lunch, an hour and a half lunch with the enterprise CIO, right?

Michael Carroll:

And I remember thinking to myself, oh, no, like, what did I do wrong?

Michael Carroll:

Like, why is he, for an hour and a half lunch, I remember talking to, like, two levels above me, just even where the our property and casualty CIO at the time, like, hey, I got this really weird invite for lunche.

Michael Carroll:

Do you know anything about it?

Michael Carroll:

Like, everything okay?

Michael Carroll:

Should I be worried?

Michael Carroll:

And he's like, oh, no.

Michael Carroll:

He's like, this is good.

Michael Carroll:

He's like, he has something to share with you.

Michael Carroll:

Just go out to lunch.

Michael Carroll:

So went out to lunch, and he said, michael, he's like, for years, a couple years now, you've been submitting these responses to strategic technology issues.

Michael Carroll:

And he's like, I really like the way you think.

Michael Carroll:

And he's like, I would like for you to be my chief of staff to come into the CIO council at the time, right.

Michael Carroll:

And be his chief of staff and to help him was, you know, run, run the council.

Michael Carroll:

And that time it was a set of, like, five or six the CIO's, that would be business unit.

Michael Carroll:

And then, you know, your.

Michael Carroll:

Your infrastructure shared services type CIO's.

Michael Carroll:

But he's like, you know, but at the time, it was a lateral, or at the time, my property and casualty.

Michael Carroll:

Property casualty, they were offering me a promotion to take on a bigger role, doing more of what I was doing.

Michael Carroll:

I remember thinking to myself, so I've got these two options, work for the enterprise CIO as a lateral, or take a promotion and be able to work for the property and casualty CIO.

Michael Carroll:

I remember when our enterprise CIO at the time, he's like, michael, he's like, you can rationalize either path, but the only advice I have to you is, anytime you think about your next role, make sure you're thinking about one or two roles after that.

Michael Carroll:

And is it preparing you for what your longer term career path is?

Michael Carroll:

And I remember going home, talking to my wife, and, like, you know, like, you know, part of me really wants the promotion, right?

Michael Carroll:

More money, right.

Michael Carroll:

More responsibility.

Michael Carroll:

I said, but this.

Michael Carroll:

If I do this job really well, right, I have an opportunity to work for the people who are going to hire you.

Michael Carroll:

Prepare me for a CIO job in the future.

Michael Carroll:

And so I took the lateral, and I can tell you, I wouldn't be.

Michael Carroll:

I did a good job.

Michael Carroll:

I told my wife, like, if I do this job really well, it could be really good for me.

Michael Carroll:

If I don't, it could be really bad.

Michael Carroll:

This kind of a risk and a reward.

Michael Carroll:

It went really well, luckily.

Michael Carroll:

And I would tell you, I don't think I would be where I am right now without that unexpected twist in my career.

Michael Carroll:

By taking on that role, that was completely unexpected for me.

Michael Carroll:

The learning was incredible.

Michael Carroll:

I was able to work with the CEO members of the cabinet.

Michael Carroll:

This is pretty early.

Michael Carroll:

This is my first officer assignment in technology.

Michael Carroll:

And then got the credibility of all the CIO's that reported to the enterprise CIO that then were just waiting.

Michael Carroll:

Then I'm willing to take you on for, like, the next role after being chief of staff or Enterprise CIO.

Michael Carroll:

So that's.

Michael Carroll:

And I do it all over again.

Michael Carroll:

It was a great experience.

Michael Carroll:

Yeah.

Casey Marquette:

You know what stood out to me on that answer was, you said, luckily, you know, you succeeded.

Casey Marquette:

I always tell the teams, I've got a sign on my wall in the office that says, the harder I work, the luckier I get.

Casey Marquette:

So I'm certain even from this short conversation, it wasn't luck.

Casey Marquette:

I tell you, Michael, the thing I've been very impressed with is clearly you've studied leadership.

Casey Marquette:

I can just tell in this short call.

Casey Marquette:

And then also, you bring up family a lot, which I'm sure your team really respects, and talk about connecting with people.

Casey Marquette:

I mean, it's not just all work.

Casey Marquette:

So absolutely awesome.

Casey Marquette:

So I think we should wrap it up here.

Casey Marquette:

It seems like a good point to conclude.

Casey Marquette:

And, Michael, I just want to say to you, thanks for coming on the show, my friend.

Casey Marquette:

For everyone out there, have a great day.

Michael Carroll:

Thank you, Casey.

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LEAD I.T.
The LEAD I.T. Podcast where the greatest minds in technology and security share their hard-earned lessons, insights, and stories.

These are the transformation champions in tech.

You'll discover the keys to success for leading innovation, growth, and change within your organization.

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